10. “I only contact a few select women.”
9. “I really want to fall in love” or “I’m not just looking for sex.”
8. “I am really good at oral.”
7. “My ex-girlfriend turned out to be really crazy.”
6. “I’ve been told that I am a lot of fun once you get me out.”
5. “I know how to treat a woman.” or “I respect women.”
4. “You can trust me.”
3. “My wife lets me date.”
2. “I’d never intentionally hurt you.”
1. “Not All Men.”
“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen” ~ Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
This bears repeating after the week that I’ve had…
Yesterday, I recieved:
97 Likes and 23 Messages…
15 of which were “hi/hey/you’re beautiful” or some other minimal effort.
3 were vulgar.
5 I responded to, and out of these…
1 was trying to cheat on his wife (I’m ethically non-monogamous)
1 was looking for MFM (I’m a 1 on 1 girl)
1 was a couple looking for a unicorn (I am not THAT kind of unicorn)
So, out of 23 messages, only 2 were not a complete waste of my time.
And this is the reality of on- line dating for women so think about it the next time you whine about how difficult it is for you to get a response from a woman in the on-line dating world, men.
One on-line dating app.
One of my best friends turned me on to this movie about 3 weeks ago, it’s called “Below Her Mouth” and it’s basically Lesbian Porn. And I LOVE it.
Yes, yes, I know. I’m the woman against porn but THIS is very different. Steamy and intense and deeply (well, you’ll just have to watch, ladies)…
Yet this movie is clearly missing one thing, the normal female degradation you see in most heterosexual male porn.
If a woman can do this to me, why am I wasting my time with men??? (grin)
And it’s on Netflix ladies!! Go watch it!!
Telling me that you’re divorced but neglecting to mention the girlfriend you just adopted a puppy with over Christmas is not going to get you a first date… with me anyway.